In this story I would like to share in details some of my real experiences with my clueless wife, going from mild to extreme.
47yo M married to S, 45yo chubby PAWG with 32K udders to match her phat ass.
As many chubby PAWGs, S is very self conscious about her body and always dresses conservatively. S also does not enjoy pain or discomfort during sex, but will “take one for the team” from time to time as long as it is moderate and I am able to catch her in the right mood.
Unfortunately for her, I define myself as a candaulist with sadistic tendencies.
Candaulism is a paraphilic sexual practice in which one person exposes their naked partner, or images of their naked partner, to other people for their voyeuristic pleasure. And as a sadist I derive sexual pleasure from inflicting pain and humiliation on others.
This clash of “interests” forces me to be quite creative when coming to fulfill my sexual fantasies.
In this post I would like to share in details some of my real experiences with clueless S, going from mild to extreme.
First part – un@ware exposure
1. – pics & vids
To this day, S is certain that the only people who have seen her naked body are myself, her high school boyfriend and her doctors. She could not have been more wrong! The reality is that I have been taking and sharing countless sneaky pictures of her in various state of undress. If I were to estimate the number of people who seen her naked this number would be closer to 250,000! I always keep her face blurred though to protect MY privacy. I wish there was anyway for someone else to capture her naked and expose her with face as well. DM me or let me know in the comments if you can think of a way that will not trace back to me.
2. Live online exposure
Since I discovered anonymous live-streaming services (e.g. Whereby & Jitsi) I used it numerous times to broadcasted S getting dressed, taking a shower or sleeping. My all time record is 50 pervs (from this site btw) watching and fapping as she is taking a long shower including shaving her cunt. During this time I keep her distracted by talking to her and holding the phone out of her field of view. This technique is riskier (and more thrilling), as it is much harder to keep her face out of the picture all the time. If anyone here has any screen grabs please DM me or post it in the comments.
3. Real life exposure
This was a once in a lifetime opportunity and I ceased it! Last summer we went to the beach. Being very conservative and self-conscious S only wears “bulletproof” one piece bathing suits. Usually her bathing suite does a good job in keeping her huge breasts contained but this summer she lost some weight and her top was fitting a little looser than usual.
As we were floating around I noticed her left areola slowly #Censor out the top of her suite. I took note of that and started frolicking with her, hugging her from behind, picking her up and dropping her back in the water. This approach worked and her left nipple was soon slipping out.
I immediately carried on to help her float on her back and asked her to close her eyes and stretch her arms out and relax as I support her neck and lower back to help her float.
Next to us in the water was a dad with his two teenage sons. Pretending not to notice anything I slowly guided her to float right in-front of the mid-forties man. I kept staring at the distance but from the corner of my eye saw him fixated on her exposed nipple.
She finally grew tired of floating around after few minutes and came back to a standing position. It was only then when she noticed her nipple was out. Being the prude that she is, she immediately reached down to fix it and was visibly embarrassed.
When asked, I said that I didn’t see anything before, and that it probably happened just as she was changing position to stand. She was still very embarrassed and got out of the water shortly after.
Second part – Enjoying her pain
Now this one is a little trickier. As mentioned S does not enjoy pain or discomfort. She will occasionally agree to light bondage, spanking and not-too-tight clamps that we have in our toy box, but nothing really painful. Leaving me with having to come up with innovative ways to inflict pain without exposing my intentions.
1. Toothpaste on clit
Just before going in for a quicky I excused myself saying I was going to brush my teeth. In the bathroom I applied a nice coat of strong mint toothpaste on my forefinger and returned. We started playing and I got her aroused using my tongue and middle finger, carful to leave my index finger out of the game. I waited for her clit to get fully engorged and protrude out of its hood to quickly switch fingers and apply toothpaste directly on her unprotected nub. For 30 seconds or so it seemed like it has no effect. She was panting heavily nearing orgasm when she suddenly jerks back holding her now burning clit with a wtf look on her face. When she finally realized what was the source of her pain I apologized profoundly and we both agreed that in the future I should be more careful washing my hands after I brush my teeth. A life lesson to all of us. Ruined orgasm and clit torture at the same time, I couldn’t ask for more.
2. Rubber band on clit
So, this one actually started out as a genuine new way to give her pleasure, not pain, but I could not resist the opportunity when it came knocking…
S has one of those small hidden clits. She often mentioned she would like to have a bigger clit so she can experience clitoral stimulation during penetration. In our toy box we have a clit pump that we seldom use because according to S the nice suction feeling is quickly replaced by pain and discomfort that she is not fond of one bit. One night I convinced S that if I slide a rubber band on the tube and roll it down around her clit shortly after applying suction we will be able to remove the suction tube and keep that big clit sensation without painful suction.
She didn’t ask what rubber band I am going to use and I did not volunteer the information.I dug up one of those tiny rubber bands left from Orthodontic treatment and placed it over the tube. It was a tight fit but I thought nothing of it.
I took the time getting her aroused while gradually increasing the suction in the tube. I also asked her to tell me before it gets too painful because I didn’t want her backing out on me. When time was right I tried sliding the rubber band down to the base of her now stretched-out clit. The band was super tight and I was not able to grab it with my fingers. The funny part was that at this point the stupid cow was so horny that instead of worrying how this super tight rubber band will feel around her clit she was busy trying to figure out ways to help me get a better grip on the band lol. Finally she pulls out a hairpin from her bedside dresser and suggests I slide it under the band to get a better grip.
Remember, this whole thing started out as a way to increase HER pleasure. However, at this point I already knew that this is not going to end well for her but still decided that carry on with the plan. Just because she cannot have fun doesn’t mean I can’t.
I slid the hairpin under the band and used it as leverage to lower it to the base of the tube. SNAP! the rubber band closed tightly around her sensitive clit.
Ouch! Take it off, take it off! She literally reached down and ripped off the suction cup before I even had a chance to release the pressure. She tried removing the band herself but it was well dug into the soft tissue and she couldn’t get a grip.
I was rock hard, trying to keep a straight face while faking genuine concern. Ok, ok, spread your legs and let me take it off. I made several clumsy attempts to grab it pinching and rubbing her now deformed exposed clit, she was visibly suffering and my probing just made things worst. Don’t move, I have to use the hairpin, I said as I reached over to the pin seated on the bedside table. I have excellent fine motor skills, and I was absolutely going to use those skills to get her out of her predicament…but first, I figured since she is in pain ANYWAY why not have a little fun in the process. With that in mind I made sure that hairpin goes to all the wrong places, at one point I even managed to slide it under the hood of her clit, clumsy me lol.
I was finally able to slide the pin under the rubber band and was ready for my last move. Don’t move, I said, I am going to take it off now. I used my right hand to sharply lift the pin upwards causing the rubber band to stretch even more. At this point the band was supposed to slip off, luckily I had my left thumb holding the lower part of the band securely.
As the stretched rubber band cut deeper into the base of her clit she gasped and jerked a little. This gave me plausible deniability… I let the stretched out rubber band slip off the pin, SNAP! right on the exposed tip. Ouch! She crossed her legs holding her agonized bean. I decided she had enough and quickly wiggled the rubber band off.
Authors note:
Believe it or not but those stories are true to the letter.
Of course I am able to pull this kind of tricks and get away with it only once, so you are welcomed to post any creative new ideas you may have.
